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| The Irony of Penis Size |
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Somehow we’ve always held as a supreme truth the notion that the great big penis is best. Women have just accepted this idea because by the time we develop any real knowledge of penises, the men have instilled in us an understanding of their noble wisdom - that bigger is superior.
Men have prided and humbled themselves on this belief since time immemorial. Mostly, they have been humbled by false stereotypes. And why is this?
» Because a big penis means you have more testosterone? No connection.
» Because a big penis means you are more manly? By what standards?
» Because a big penis means you will satisfy a woman better? Oh, no, it’s just not that easy.
Ironically, the competition that men have instituted between themselves is not about their will to trounce all other men as the supreme satisfier of women. It is ultimately about a private fear of inadequacy and a basic gender misunderstanding.
Satisfaction of a woman is related more to good navigation skills (i.e. locating the clitoris) and communication abilities (establishing her personal preferences in touch, pace and context) than to pure mechanics. Therefore, assuming the outcome of sex will be dependent on the measurement of his penis is simply reconstructing the cardinal sin of sex, which is thinking that it is all about him.
Get over it, and we’ll get over our misinformed need to play along with the farce. After all, a man’s size only has relevance in relation to a woman’s size. Yes, we too come in different shapes and sizes, which are of course more difficult to compare and feel insecure about (which we too often manage to do nevertheless).
As far as matching is concerned, being “too small” is as much (or perhaps less) of a problem than being too big. And being stuck thinking that size mismatches cannot be worked with, is the most unfortunate problem of all.
So what is it that women really prefer? Coming shortly: The Women’s Take on Penis Size
More about the possibility of Finding Indicators of Penis Size
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Reader's comments   Average rating from 4 comments |
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| arianne, USA |
| This is utter garbage and a good example of women writing about male sexuality with their biaes, assumptions and poor grasp of history in a sexual context is absurd. Women are the ones more likely to obsess, write, deliberate and talk about penis size. This notion that bigger is better is a "patriarchal" manifestation created solely by men is naive and misinformative. In some respects men are more mature in this- I don't see them enforcing the idea that breast size equates to sexual worth. They appreciate and accept it. Both genders perpetuate their unique qualities, men penises, women breasts- so this article reads as a bit hypocritical |
| published on Wednesday, December 31, 2008 |
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| arianne, usa |
| belittling men on this topic, yet the picture is of a woman holding a microscope- hmmmm very telling |
| published on Wednesday, December 31, 2008 |
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| n/a, u.s.a. |
| This article is blatently sexist against men. |
| published on Friday, July 10, 2009 |
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| Bianca, Miami Beach |
Who are these dumbass commenters? Can't they comprehend that the article is REFUTING the stigma about bigger pricks being better? Did they even make it to the end of the page?
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| published on Sunday, August 09, 2009 |
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